This is Carlos Cavallo from
datingadviceguru.com Today we’re gonna talk about 3 Simple Steps
to make him want you and addict him to you Using science! Let’s get into it… One of the prime desires of almost every person
on the planet is to be loved and desired. Women want it. Men want it.
It’s part of our genetic code. And yeah, we might have mood swings
that push us up or down. but it’s hard to go for a whole day without
feeling some kind of connection to someone special. In scientific studies, they’ve even proven
that people become chemically ADDICTED to love. These same chemicals get activated when you take drugs! *GASP!*
This is scandalous stuff! So today, I’m going to show you 3 steps
to trigger that delicious cocktail of desire
in your man’s mind. After all, you’ve already got that feeling.
Now you want him to feel it too. STEP 1: Be his “Puller…”
Let me start right away
by explaining that I think there are
good addictions in life. Yeah, we already know about the bad ones,
but there are things we can allow ourselves to
get a little attached to. And I think LOVE is one of those addictions. That being said, I believe we owe it to the person
we love to be the best kind of “drug” they can get. So you need to be his “Puller.”
Remember, back in the 70s? When they used to call drug dealers “pushers”?
Well you’re gonna be a PULLER. You’re gonna pull him into your magnetic,
charismatic field The difference is that we’ll be doing it
in a way that is a WIN-WIN! And that means you’ve got nothing to fear
about using this approach. Simple science of how to get somebody interested
and addicted to your very presence. You want your man to feel like being with you
is an incredibly fun event that he doesn’t want to miss. So you have to make yourself focus
on one feeling in him: FUN! The best way to be fun is to spike
his adrenaline. Adrenaline is another of the “love chemicals”
in your brain that gets activated when
you fall in love. So there’s nothing better than getting him
excited and turning on the love. And attraction comes down to the fact that
interesting people are interesting to be with. MAKE HIM WANT YOU – STEP 2: First one’s free… One of the tricks of a “pusher” is that they
would give you the first sample of their product for free. “Hey, this one’s on the house! Give it a try…” There are two principles at work:
Principle 1: He will feel obligated to “repay” you later… Remember that principle I mentioned about how we’re
compelled to avoid getting into “debt” to another person? It comes from a persuasion principle known as
“reciprocity.” You feel the need to avoid debt to somebody,
whether they ask for repayment or not Principle #2: He’s going to take it… Yeah, some people try to resist this offer of generosity. But when something so good is staring you in your face
like a love-starved kitten, it’s hard to resist. Sin sells so well because of this principle. So break that pattern on him and keep giving
him a few more “free” fun vouchers on this ride. He’ll be pleasantly surprised. And he’ll gladly
keep coming back when he senses that he can
ease himself into the relationship at a less “serious” pace. MAKE HIM WANT YOU – STEP #3: Give him The Ache… If you can handle me making one more reference to
our drug analogy, let me explain it like this: You simply need to complete the loop that
keeps him coming back to you for his next fix. When it comes to drugs, they do the work.
When the user wants more, they feel it.
Usually when the “high” of the drug has worn off. It’s very similar for us when we’re falling in love.
The sensation of being with someone that you adore is
like a shot of natural ecstasy. You’re on Cloud Nine around them, and you don’t
want it to stop. When they’re gone,
you ache for the next “hit.” This is what I call “giving him the joy of missing you.” Most women tend to initiate contact with him way
too many times after the date. Mostly from it’s insecurity. Hey, who could blame you? When I went out on dates,
I was always the one who thought, “I wonder if she digs me?” So the best thing you can do is to let him feel
that wonder and insecurity himself. After all, I’m sure you
remember how it worked on YOU, right? As the saying goes, if you love a man, set him free.
If he comes back, you know it’s love. If he doesn’t, you could never have made it happen
with a clever text the next morning.
Of course, I’m paraphrasing… And once you understand how your man REALLY thinks,
it’s pretty easy to present yourself as the
fun challenge he’s looking for. Every guy has a set of “secret signals” that you
need to figure out which
I’ll explain in this great presentation. Go on to www.DatingAdviceGuru.com/ReadHisSignals Get started with learning how to read his signals and know what he’s thinking. Does he love you? You’ll find out… This is Carlos Cavallo from www.DatingAdviceGuru.com/ReadHisSignals
and I’ll be back again with more secrets to unlock his heart. Until then, live and love with passion.
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