Life Beyond Addictive Behaviours – Hybrid Addiction Coaching

Life Beyond Addictive Behaviours – Hybrid Addiction Coaching


hello and welcome to my video
all about transformation not it’s not about transformation it’s all about
being a failure failing at miserable things in life filling in addictions
feeling at marriages just failing in life and why am I so excited when I say
failure because that’s what I learned to be a failure and didn’t make me feel
good no it didn’t not make me feel good made me feel terrible but that’s exactly
what I wanted to feel when I was young so in my teens I had these thoughts I
had to be the best you know best sports I wasn’t so good at at school so I
didn’t compensate from my my sports because that wasn’t very smart
I had dyslexia and problems reading I had stuttering issues so I had to be the
best so when it came to when I moved into my adulthood school was finished
sports were finished I went into addictions alcohol drugs because I
couldn’t fulfill myself I couldn’t be the best at sports so those thoughts in
my life that I wanted to be a failure because I didn’t accept the fact that I
couldn’t be the best at one thing you know I was told I was the best so I
thought in my mind I had to be the best at certain things so I was the best
delivery driver I was the best trust maker so bill roof trusses was the best
best pipe fitter best machine operator and then in 2015
moving way into to the 2015 number 2020 I made this decision I did not want to
work anymore you know I didn’t know how to use a computer I didn’t know how to
do much but I knew a lot I knew about life I knew
addictions a nubile failing knew about mental issues non-supportive stories and
how does that make sense is because I started to understand accept the fact
that I had non-supportive stories that I was negative that it did have any major
addictions in life and in 2016 this light bulb went on my head I can’t lie
to myself I can’t lie the fact that I had addictions I couldn’t lie to myself
that I couldn’t use a computer I didn’t know how to use an iPhone I didn’t all
make videos all of a sudden I started making videos I started using computer
that never even knew anything about so I practiced and practiced and practiced
and seen with my addictions I thought about why it was happening to me why I
wanted to use addictions because I wanted to numb my pains because I wasn’t
smart enough wasn’t good enough it was all my self-talk that I was telling
myself it was all be yes and all bullshit so my point is when you learn
from those failures it leads to success I believe so 100% but if you do the same
thing over and over and over again they’ll get the same results you never
learn anything do I make mistakes absolutely do I fail
yes do I succeed yes – I’ve non-supportive stories yes but I accept
them and before word I believe so I know so you know making videos I’ve made over
500 videos in the last five years practice practice practice if I didn’t
like it I deleted it if it didn’t like something when I was working on the
computer I deleted and I did it over again it’s
the same thing as my book that I wrote you know I wrote it about two years and
then I reread it again I read it rewrote it again so I just practice
practice practice and I made persistence part of my life and saying that mistakes
is not a bad thing because there’s good and bad and everything that’s being
yanked it’s a part of life so now it’s 2020 my addictions is gone
it’s nearly four years those non-supportive stories still linger on
once in a while but I accept them and see them as an opportunity to learn and
I girl for them I believe that’s a life is you’re learning something and you
learn from those mistakes you learn the opportunities are in front of us let me
see the truth and the opportunities right in front of me just have to look
in the mirror and I do that every single day look at the mirror and ask myself
how can I show up in this world how can I learn how can I grow improve I believe
that’s what life’s all about but who is this construction worker farmer boy to
really say what life is all about well I’m just here to say that whatever we
perceive when our life is we move forward and grow
I believe anybody and everybody in this world has the opportunity to grow and be
who they were meant to be so grow and be who you were meant to be make mistakes
learn from those mistakes make more mistakes so create the life you always
wanted you’ve always desired and be successful in your own be mind and
create that pathway to where you want to be in life it’s have a fantastic day bye
bye for now

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