Hello and welcome! This is M from
Narcissistic Abuse Rehab – a safe place where survivors in recovery can find awareness, empowerment, and healing. Our topic for today is “Never Seek Closure
From A Narcissist”. This message is for all the survivors whose abusers are
refusing to give them closure. By the end of this video you’re going to understand
why the Narcissist refuses to give you closure and how you can take back your
power. Please slap a like on this video and hit the subscribe button to help
grow this channel. With that said, let’s dive into our topic “Never Seek Closure
From A Narcissist.” Narcissists withhold closure for the same reason they
withhold apologies and refuse to be held accountable. It’s a primitive power and
control tactic aimed at putting you in a psychological chokehold. The stronger you are, the longer they’ll withhold the closure that is your due. They want you to wonder why they want you to obsess and suffer. They want to live rent-free in
your mind. The withholding is yet another narcissistic operation to string you
along. Narcissists aren’t complicated. They’re con artists driven by their sick
addiction to supply. For more on this topic please check out my video
“Narcissists Are Slaves to Their Addiction.” They may give you a drop of
hope here and there, but this is to confuse you more. They burn hot then turn cold. This is called dosing and it is one of the
strategies they use to colonize your mind. Well, today is Independence Day. The con only works as long as you believe the Narcissist. Once you understand that
these tricksters weaponize love and hope and use them against you, the truth is
plain to see. Closure must come from within YOU.
Narcissists have no power outside of their manipulations. They can only
manipulate you if you believe them. The Narcissist can’t give you closure. They
have no power. This is why they targeted you in the first place. YOU have the
power. YOU are the prize. You must give yourself closure- It begins and ends with
YOU. It’s not about the narcissist, it’s about you. The only influence, the only
control the narcissist has over you is what YOU give them.
This ends right now. Take your power back! You’re coming out of this! It’s game
over. You’re back in the driver’s seat of your life. Because everything you loved
about them was a reflection of you. They have nothing to give.
They mirrored you. Nobody robs someone who has nothing! They picked you because you have it all. The light is in YOU. The love is in YOU. The power is in YOU. The
narcissist has nothing. Goodbye to their compulsive lying, goodbye to their dirty
tricks, goodbye to the funhouse of deception, goodbye to the mirror that’s
distorted your perception. ENOUGH. They cannot give you closure. This is the
moment you break out of the bondage of narcissistic abuse. This is the moment
you take your power back. This is the moment you choose YOURSELF.
Block your abuser on Facebook. Block your abuser on Instagram. Block their number.
Block their email. From this moment, your abuser doesn’t get another DROP of your
precious energy. That fire is YOUR’S. That fire is going to burn the bridge that
lights your way of freedom. No more deception. No more lies. No more illusions. No more pain. No more bondage. No more tears. No more. No more. This is the moment
you’re going to save yourself. The game is over. That’s my message for today. I’d
like to share a quote with you from Pima Chodron, “Inner peace begins the moment
you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.” I wish
you peace, serenity, and healing. If you liked this video, please hit the “Like” and
“Subscribe” buttons. Help grow this channel by sharing this message with two friends.
Be good to yourself. We’ll talk again soon.