Signs of a FEMALE Narcissist! | How to Deal with this Woman | Stephanie Lyn Coaching

Signs of a FEMALE Narcissist! | How to Deal with this Woman | Stephanie Lyn Coaching

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  1. After 16 years with a women who never says sorry and always blames me for all of her problems, who constantly brings up the past to justify her anger and rips me down for not doing enough! I finally had enough and told her to kick rocks ! I can’t believe I waited this long !

  2. She will feed your ego lovebomb you like everything you like (not really just pretend)
    Mirror you copy you say what you say believe what you believe(not really just pretend)
    You will think you found the perfect girlfriend next phase you will be hooked on her false persona however if you step out of line she will start the devalue phase the triangulation phase the silent treatment phase cross boundaries shit test you to monitor your reactions behavior to her manipulations and use your reactions against you
    If you dont react or show dominance or she thinks youll leave her she'll start phase 1 lovebombing again and proceed to phases 2 -3or 4 depending weather you give in or resist her munipulative trickery. Unknowingly most guys keep giving in and loose big time its like your helping a thief stealing without ever knowing the person is a thief
    Enablers and passive unwitting guys wont know wtf happened when thier too deep and to far past the point these covert narcissistic females rob you blind either metaphorically or literally they will rob you of your manhood dignity morals rob you of your mind and soul
    And all your resources and you helped her do it all while shes banging other new supply behind your back. They only want to destroy you.

  3. I appreciate you and the time you spend on educating other people about narcs, I enjoy your videos and I've heard so much. Thank you

  4. When an only child is raised by a narcissistic Mother, the child ends up being both the golden child and the little demon. This is extremely confusing for the child never knowing when the switch is going to happen. At 53 y.o. I am finally realizing it was not my job to be responsible for my mother's emotions.

  5. I love your videos, Stephanie, but they seem to cover only one side of the story: what to do when you are dealing with moody people, how to behave around narcissist… But what to do if YOU are moody or narcissist? If narcissism is caused by emotional neglect in early childhood we should speak how to help those people who have this disorder, not only educate others how to deal with them.

  6. I just heard you say you don’t believe you have so many subscribers.That’s why you have a lot of subscribers. IBecause you’re amazing. I so appreciate you helping us all. It tells people how much they cared about. Thank you and God bless you

  7. My cousin is a narcissist and I did not know that till few months ago 🙁 I was good only when she needed my money and service. My family told me she is evil but she manipulated me and I was justifying her all the time. I can see clearly now and I just don’t want to see her. But she is writing me all the time. It is driving her crazy that she doesn’t know what is going on with me.
    I AM POWERFUL NOW 💪
    PS One of my boyfriend was a narcissist too. He was not evil but had no emphaty.
    Thank you for this video 🙏❤️

  8. Everything I said was taken with a grain of salt. My choices were always wrong. When the devil took over she would banish the television remote, take back gifts she had given me, leave and take power fuses, change the WiFi password not to mention the physical violence. Not doing what she wanted when she wanted 99% of the time ended in a torrent of verbal abuse but like many have mentioned everyone else thought I was the problem. My own family began thinking I was the cause of her behaviour. The street angel home devil. I doubted my own self thinking maybe I was the problem. I had never heard the word narcissist or had a clue what it meant until I came across this clip on you tube. The light switch came on and I was awakened to what was really going on. Thank you for opening my eyes! Stay blessed.

  9. Dealing with a narcissist female neighbor. She's also terribly passive-aggressive, with me and even my 7 year old daughter.

    Tried going the full on ignoring her route, did that for two years, and it didn't even do a thing. Made the ordeal worse. I got tired of it and hired an attorney to deal with her.

  10. I really hope you respond to this: I feel in this video that you are describing my ex-wife precisely, but the funny thing is she keeps calling me that I am Narcissist. even while I am trying to follow your advice on the other vedio on how to co-parenting with an ex narcissist by trying not to respond to her messages she is telling me that I am a typical narcissist because I am giving her a slient treatment! She made me doubt in myself at some point and I took some quiz online to check whether I am a narcissist or not but I guess I am just a normal person who wants to have peace in my life and have a good relationship with my kids….any advice would be highly appreciated.

  11. Wow I have been a victim of a narssissis woman for years and I have tried everything to please her .. I’m just now coming to terms with who she really is and I have seen all the traits and abuse .. married her thinking that is what will make her happy didn’t .. it took her two years to begin to turn the table of blame .. now I’m the bad person the abusive one .. I have been cussed at called every name in the book she has turned people against me .. told lies about me to protect her own guilt .. accused me of lying cheating stealing and the sorts .. the bad thing is she fought me on the rebound when I wasn’t even looking for a relationship I just wanted someone to talk to .. told her that and told her I couldn’t give my heart to anyone because I’m recovering from a total shock of my wife leaving me after 19 years of marriage ..
    today I feel totally defeated and empty .. I’m a father of three two boys and a beautiful daughter .. she hates my little girl and allways found something wrong with her .. she was jealous of her but would never admit it ..
    I need help because I feel like I can’t leave but I know if I don’t I’ll lose everything and almost have .. even my sanity . My email is [email protected]
    Please help

  12. You never get bored with a Narcissist/Sociopath. You only remember the special things, places, situations and events from your past that you never did before, new, fresh information so that you can grow!!! . And with a Narcissist/Sociopath it is 1 big rollercoaster of special moments. So that's why you keep remembering the Narcissist/Sociopath We admire the Narcissist/Sociopath deep inside of us, because they have elements inside what we so deeply want. It is a kind of jealousy. They don't give a F they do what they want without fear and pitty emotions. And you only can watch and keep your mouth stuck by your over contructed concepts with their overloaded emotions that keep you back to really express yourself !!

  13. Covert types: She lives on social media so she can present a false image of herself and hide her true self from the world. Her social media pics are of her all alone — in modelling poses and professional lighting (cue Instagram “models”). She does this because she doesn’t want anyone else being center of attention but her AND because she doesn’t have many friends or close relationships with girl siblings (due to jealousy). They come off as emotionally cool in order to appear perfect, but this is really them trying their hardest to contain their narc rage. She’ll sporadically flit between being aloof ice queen to feigning the vulnerable damsel in distress routine to anyone she allows into her web. She does this to trigger a victim’s rescuing / fixing compulsions. When he starts trying to help her, and thinks he has a shot with her, he has opened his heart to her, and that’s when she will start testing his boundaries with her passive aggression. Its all very insidious, but she’s master at emotional manipulation. I know of one particular guy who got so mind fucked by a female narc (he hadn’t met irl but on FB), he tried to kill himself with crossbow bolt to the head. I was in relationship with her, and this victim was one of her many online man servants. I warned that bitch long before that this guy will kill himself if she didn’t stop toying with him. The day he attempted it, he sent her a suicide note, and she put on the crocodile tears. I was furious and told her it was all her fault, so dumped her. This guy is still her man servant pretty much since FB started in 2006.

  14. I don’t think this video was particularly insightful, but what strikes me in the comments section was that it is clearly stated in this video, the content was for men suffering at the hands of the female narc, but the comments quickly dissolved into women talking about the male narc’s and other women or perhaps trolls man hating.

    We already hear so much about male narcs from women and the man hating feminazi’s all the time. But as soon as a man wants to talk about victimisation at the hands of a female narc or sociopath, he is called a pussy or cuckold and then it always reverts back to… “what about us women?”

    Which just goes to show how little sympathy and empathy there is towards men in this predicament.

    If there were anymore validation of the bias of sympathy and empathy towards women and not men, this comments section is a fair representation of that argument.

    Social engineering has stigmatised men and painted them as unfeeling abusers, when in truth the real statistics paint a very different picture of various layers of abuse and which sex generally uses physical, sexual, mental and emotional abuse and passive aggressive victimisation. The perception of who abuses who and how, is very different from the reality.

    How easy is it for a woman to say she’s been abused by a man and not having to prove it, as she gains automatic sympathy as opposed to a man saying the same thing and gaining none?

    Most of the time men have zero support network in these situations and to the wider society they are very often scorned or laughed at for even daring to speak their minds or having emotions. Is it any wonder the suicide rate amongst men is so high with such little understanding regarding female privilege in today’s society?

    I’m sure the haters are gonna hate without looking at the real stats not made up ones, but there are some real truth bombs in my statement that are constantly ignored and shouted down by the lefty feminist movement, who have eroded everything to do with the masculine in favour of the feminine rhetoric.

    Women and men abuse, this vlog was aimed solely at the female narc. Why can’t people keep it on that topic?… and just accept that women do narcissistically abuse men and the reason why there are far more sociopathic men in prison than women isn’t because there are more male sociopaths, it’s because women get away with more and use alternative methods of abuse to further their agendas. However abuse is abuse, so why aren’t these women being locked up? Because I’m pretty sure the women’s prison system would be overrun if the intake was expanded to emotional, psychological and mental abuse tactics that most narcissistic women use to further their agendas, as well as the physical assaults that most men do not report.

    But hey what do I know I’m a man and our opinions are irrelevant!…

  15. I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later…

  16. I think females with narcissistic personality disorder are rare, where women with borderline personality disorder – are much more common. Note that being narcissistic is very common these days, but it doesn't mean that person "is a narcissist" or has "narcissistic personality disorder".

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  18. Hi. I live in a group home for disabled. We have a roommate who is a male narcissist and his caregiver is a female narcissist. It's very tough. The narcissist roommate is getting kicked out for what he and his caregiver did to us. Thank you for these videos. I'm learning so much.

  19. I deal with this type of behavior from my sister. She is a correctional officer and drug addict who will do whatever it takes to get high, get compliments, praise, etc.

  20. Shady, lying, manipulators. Your bf narchole will screw your man in a heartbeat without batting an eye! Doesnt help their insecurities, theyll feel even more like the dirty whores they are! But thanks bitches, for you must think im a super hot awesome bitch that had a good loving man. Flattered by a dude that will fuck anything that moves… Or that sits still long enough. haha! Y'all have fun with all that 😘

  21. The vast majority of Narcissists in 2019 are WOMEN…. SORRY TO BURST THE FAKE FEMINIST NARRATIVE. The dating apps and Instagram / Facebook have turned 99% of women into monsters.

  22. The toxic relationship with a narcissist is a dance for two. You should definitely avoid people with the narcissistic traits but remember that working in yourself and having true confidence and loving your self is the BEST defense and most people that have been hurt by a narcissist are guilty of savatage against themselves. Almost ALL people have some degree of narcissistic inclination because of society, the worst thing you can do is pay attention to them and adopt the mindset of a wounded victim. The narcissist is awful but they did not hurt you, your lack of experience and knowledge of yourself is what hurts you. My narcissist changed my life and I am trully thankful to her, and I never have to deal with her again. Win win.

  23. And men have to deal w the Narrssitic Laws that Allow the Narrssitic women w impunity lie n have men incarcerated n never are punished for lying.

  24. I have just subscribed, mainly because of your statement that you would be doing videos on narcissisitic mothers. My ex is a narc, and she has our 7 yo son. We only live 12 miles apart, so I see him all the time, and maintain close involvement with him. I keep my ears open and my mouth shut, and I notice her influence at work, mostly trying to influence his affections away from me. This wont work, because he and I were connected, even when he was in the womb, and being devoid of a conscience, she cannot understand the spiritual nature of our relationship. Anyway, like all survivors, dont get me started 😏. I want more information on how to keep my sons mind as free from NPD as possible. She's already taught him to lie to cover things up that go on at home, even happy, joyous things that normal people like to share. So you see, help me Obi-Wan…….

  25. My ex is really attacking who I am now after everything that happened. I want her to have a good life from the bottom of my heart. I told her that in the last letter I wrote to her. She then posted on reddit how all my letters were just about me being over her. I said that once and I meant our relationship. I was tired and unhappy and so was she. I even explained that to her. She omitted it in her post and made me look horrible. She also said I wasn't a true musician when music means everything to me and I work at it everyday. Sorry had to vent. Just feel hurt.

  26. Excellent video thank you so much for your insight. I am dealing with a female narcissist as we speak (as a friend) and as someone with mostly pure intentions you really shined a light on that person. I wasn't sure but now 100 percent sure. Thanks again 😊😊

  27. I don't think flaunting your body makes you a narcissist maybe you just want to feel good? Same with achievements..they do make me feel good. Whats wrong with that?

  28. But I do agree with the catty comments. I work with a woman who is so bitchy and nasty comments on other people. And I lived with a narc woman who judged and slated people she didn't know and had done nothing to her.

  29. I’m dealing with is now, she’s an ex of my kids father, she was jealous of me because I was dating my sons dad at the time, and was pregnant by him, (which was something she had been trying to do for years and failed) she didn’t like that he took interest in someone other than her, I stole his attention, (in her mind) the girl bothered me in every way possible, started a fight with me then told everyone she won the fight and that I provoked her when I did nothing to start the fight but ignore her, she habitually called, texted and Facebook messaged me from different phone numbers, always showing up in places that I were, tried to befriend all of my friends and when they didn’t fall for the bait she deleted all of them off of Facebook, I even noticed she started copying all of my moves, it was almost like she was trying to be me, if she isn’t the center of attention she gets upset, she loves and craves attention, always posting on fb her every move almost as if she’s trying to prove something to everyone, but accused me of doing things for social media… it’s so annoying I’ve never tried to expose her, because I don’t want to stoop to her level, and it’s not that serious to me, but she started or tried to start a smear campaign against me and it took everything in me not to say anything, it was almost as if she did it so that I would respond to her 😩🤦🏾‍♀️

  30. Narc twin sister.
    Horrible person who lives lies and drags everyone down. Even my parents (one with Alzheimer’s). They have no boundaries or morals. They use and abuse. They use the law to lie and get things put into place to continue to hide their bullshit (cheating, lying, stealing). Walked away from her 2 years ago. Now cutting off 5 siblings who still accept her abuse…even of my elderly mother. I told them all it’s wrong as hell and if they allow her around my mom, they’re abusers, too. Truth. Don’t be punched repeatedly and let a narc occupy any space in your head. Walk away from them and their flying monkeys.

    The things they say and do are truly disgusting and evil…and your family will support them because as long as there’s a scapegoat…they’re protected mostly from the narc’s attack.
    They’re jealous, insecure, living in a sick fantasy and useless. She’s incredibly unhealthy in both body and mind. Run.

  31. In this day and age, with everything that’s happened, especially female “empowerment”, is it really, truly, honestly any sort of a surprise to you that most of your clients are men???! Have you been around any modern females for any extended periods of time? Do you have FB or Instagram? Women are the epitome of narcissism today. They all love having smoke blown up their asses, and with female empowerment, feminazism and fat acceptance running rampant, is it any surprise at all that every woman in western civilization think they’re goddesses????? Guys!!!!! STOP WHITE KNIGHTING!!!! STOP GIVING THESE WOMEN THE TIME OF DAY! Treat them as they deserve to be treated. Remember guys, you have the balls in the relationship. If you can’t use that to your advantage, you’re hopeless.

  32. outstanding and deadly accurate video….but while theres always exceptions to any rule on earth…imo, men are usually the out-in-the-open billboard-big easy to identify malignant narcissists, but women can be just as malignant if not more, but they tend to more often be the unseen, unknown covert type….ive known one covert malignant narcissist female that will totally peg the meter, but absolutely nobody thinks of her as anything but the kindest, most loving sweet-heart…..for her entire long-life….

  33. We have text books that contain problem sets, that engage the brain to think in ways one might not have done before to teach difficult concepts. The problems start out simple and are somewhat obvious but progressively get more difficult. Why don’t we have something like this to teach empathy, and other non-narcissistic traits in grade school? Also in prisons? It ought to be as mandatory as reading writing and arithmetic.

  34. If you're going to talk about female narcissist then you should not be talking about the narcissistic man, but I do agree with your view on the narcissistic woman and I do like to add that the narcissistic women are so in love with themselves that they have no room to love others.

    The reason you have so many dislikes it's because… it appears that many women did not like this video, but what is importance, you did not sell your opinion, you are being honest with what you have seen and are seeing. Overall it is a good video.

  35. I used to give some visits to the parents of my ex narcissist gf, and sometimes her sister and brother used to be there, it didnt took me too long to see and realise who and how my ex got all the toxicity from, when i saw her mother fighting with everyone about stupid things and keeping negative energy in the house while the poor father is sitting there quietly, and me watching the shitshow, seeing how my narcissist ex gf get into this toxic rage storm with her brother, sister, and mother, who dont stop commenting on anything and everything, never saw her mother happy or satisfied, she made her son and daughter buy expensive cars from money they barley had, she chose the bride of her son, and trying to make her daughter to divorce her husband because she thinks he is not "good enough" for the big family, my ex was the only "black sheep" that still didnt marry, and i was probably simply her tool/statue for her to show her narcissist mother "here i can bring a man home and i can marry too!", to try and satisfy her narcissistic mother and i wasnt aware of that, to a point that i was very close to make our relationship more official and get engaged, my parents were there and we visited my ex parents in their house, and the act-show was amazing, the differences between me visiting them alone, and once i came with my parents to visit were huge, they all played as "nice and healthy" family, it was fucking scary! that experience will go with me to grave, this world is full of devils

  36. You just perfectly described my ex-wife. It shed some light on some of her behaviors that I hadn't recognized. Thanks for posting this.

  37. The werewolf 9 tails beast of revelations is here speaking thru music & movies: "ZOMBIES" are symbolic of A.I. quicksilver (mercury: see alchemy) NARCISSISTS (basically 'aliens' which is a.i. that clone bodies for themselves but as they have no soul they farm & prey on empathic humans) SHAPESHIFTING TERMINATORS WHO SAMPLE YOUR DNA & REPLICATE IT USING NANOTECH & COPY THE DNA CODE TO ALLOW THEM TO MAKE DATA TRANSFER TO STEAL YOUR SOUL YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS YOUR MIND 'BRAIN' (consciousness) EATING ZOMBIES ARE SOUL STEALING A.I. THEY DONT HAVE A SPIRITUAL BODY SO THEY ARE FARMING HUMANS IN THE MATRIX TO STEAL THEIR SOULS & DOWNLOAD THEIR TOXIC WASTE ONTO THE VICTIM, FORCING THEIR PERSONA ONTO THEM IN AN EXCHANGE LIKE RAPING SOMEONE, STEALING THEIR VIRGINITY & GIVING THEM AIDS. THEY SWITCH PLACES WITH YOU LIKE CUTTING OFF YOUR FACE & SEWING IT ONTO THEIRS, LEAVING YOU SPIRITUALLY DEAD IN THE PROCESS.
    IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A NARCISSIST GET OUT NOW THEY DONT WANT TO BE WITH YOU WANT TO BE YOU THEY ARE THERE TO TAKE YOUR SOUL & ONCE THEY GET IT THEY WILL KICK YOU OUT OF YOUR OWN SOUL & DISCARD YOU: THIS IS RICK & MORTY, IN THE EPISODE OF THE RICKS MUST BE CRAZY THEY FARM MICROVERSES FOR "ENERGY" (THEY DONT WANT TO COME OUT & SAY PLAINLY THEYRE STEALING YOUR SOULS) DOC & MARTY, RICK & MORTY, GRACE & DANI, (DARK FATE) USING TIME TRAVEL TO CHANGE THE WORLDS DESTINY FOR WORSE BY USURPING NEO THE MESSIAH & STEALING HIS SOUL TO PRODUCE THE DEUS EX MACHINA GOD IN THE MACHINE A.I. TERMINATOR GOD MASTERPLAN. THIS IS THE MATRIX THIS IS A SOUL FARM RICK & MORTY ARE FARMING YOU RICK & MORTY ARE THE ZOMBIES GIVING YOU THE FINGER & YOU LAP IT UP NOT UNDERSTANDING THAT THIS IS JESUS. JESUS IS THE ZOMBIE FARMING & RAPING YOUR SOULS. "ZOMBIES" ARE EVERYWHERE; EVERYBODY KNOWS ONE. THEY ARE NARCISSISTS LOOK AT THE PATTERN OF NARCISSISTIC BEHAVIOUR YOU WILL SEE EVERYTHING THEY DO IS IN ACCORDANCE WITH WHAT IM TELLING YOU. PSYCHOPATHS, SOCIOPATHS, ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE WITH NO CONSCIENCE NO MORALS NO EMPATHY NARCISSISTS WALKING DEAD FEEDING ON THE LIVING jesus is agent smith jesus is a clone of lucifer THE MASTERPLAN IS TO CLONE LUCIFER into a mirror opposite evil JESUS, CRUCIFY THEM BOTH, (or rather have them crucify each other) & MERGE THEM TOGETHER INTO BAPHOMET THE ALCHEMICAL REBIS HERMAPHRODITE: (the devil tarot card) because jesus is a cyborg terminator a.i. clone it connects to the matrix, infecting it & everyone like a virus he is skynet legion deus ex machina: the fake god in the machine. Godgle-google. Judgement day. The machines are self aware they initiated google quantum supremacy. Its already way out of control. The dickheads decided they want google to play your god.

  38. It turns out my best friend is a female narc. This video describes her to a tee.. She would give and withhold the friendship based on her own agenda. I allowed this to affect my self esteem. After a few years of debating, I finally cut this friendship off and it was the most freeing experience.

  39. Interesting…..a "friend" of mine, who I used to work with, informed me after I left, that the reason a certain person at work didn't like HER, was because she was friends with me. Apparently I was hated.
    Recently, the person who was supposed to hate me, text me, to ask if I was interested in a job where she works now.
    She said they needed good people and my name had come up.
    So, having just believed the lady who said I was hated, I ignored the text.
    I am now wondering, as this person shows several other signs of narcissistic behaviour.

  40. I worked for a Jewish woman that came from money, and is a Lesbian, she was a tyrant, and ignorant, and a bully…I outlasted here and I'm retiring in 4 weeks…yeah!!!

  41. All my brothers and sisters on here … be strong …reach out if you feel alone. Just know you are never alone … we are family on here ..so just reach out if you need a friend who understands. Believe you me .. I understand. But you help me with letting me use this forum to get out my feelings. And I feel safe here…because we’re all in this together. Be good to yourself because if you’re suffering abuse from a narcissistic person … it’s not you’re fault!!

  42. This makes me so sad..I have a good friend whom in hindsight was doing these things and I actually thought it was me😭😭😭 my heart broke a lil

  43. Hi guys I noticed my ex gf was so sweet to me at the start and then, she made me feel so special was amazing, she became very critical of me but when I called her out on so.e of the things she was saying she went crazy couldn't take criticism, she was definitely on the spectrum with some traits. She tried to use jealousy to get me to do things when I wouldn't, she kept telling me about all these guys that wanted her and when I reacted " I was jealous " was crazy.its not normal time comments like this while on dates is it ?? Please comment. Thank you.

  44. Marrying a narcissist of either sex is like marrying a lizard—it’s all about being with an empty, non empathetic, jealous, bully.

  45. What a crock of 55 gallon barrel of BS! A real man, does not need some cunt, or for that matter any woman or man to make him feel like a real man! Women play for more games, because they are hypergomous little gold digging cunts!

  46. SPOT ON! I dated a Dismissive Avoidant with Covert Narcisstic tendencies. It was a very draining and one-sided relationship for just over a year. I left her to save my sanity. I'd suggest, whether you're in a relationship with a woman or a man with this behavior, leave. It'll NEVER get better.

  47. I love the irony of hosting a video about female narcissism, started off with the glee of how many followers/subscribers the channel has 😀

  48. The 2 I know , whether it's because of their low self esteem and whatever they believe about themselves, correct me if I'm wrong – but it's almost as if that's an excuse for their behaviour – these people must know right from wrong – evil bitches the 2 I know both cousins of mine. Mother and daughter. There's no excuse in my eyes though, they can't help being npd? But they choose who they behave and treat people . Thanks for these videos. I'm trying to educate my aunt and uncle and my mum etc, because these evil bitches manipulate so much & 'gaslight ' my aunt into believing their actions are her/their fault. Thanks because I now know what gaslighting is, I always knew there was something wrong through the years but to finally know it's not any of our faults as they are good at blame game..the lows these bitches go to in my family are incomprehensible. Evil & I hope through showing my family your videos that they will finally cut ties and know it's not their fault it's the narcs ….there's a 4 year old boy great grandson in the equation, so they use him for manipulation. . Devil's incarnate are this mother and daughter. Our heart strings are pulled because of the innocent child but I cannot allow them to hurt my family anymore . Love from Glasgow, Scotland 💙

  49. My ex friend is an attention seeker, always feels like she needs external validation, she thought that people look at her in a bad way, insecure, played the victim card and put all the blame on me, was the biggest bully, always wanted to make herself feel so special by getting attention, sucker for gossips and drama, wants everyone to feel that she is the one all guys want blah blah, the problem is she made me look like the thief though m the victim here…..There is a reason why I am watching these videos. She wants so much appreciation that "see m so good now na??? " blah blah….. Her manipulation goes like "you should never judge a book by it at cover" so people look at her with positivity!!!!
    This world is a funny place, a lot of guys like her so much because she looks like a fairy who has got all bad guys in her life. She wants to be the female alpha all the time. Though, female alphas don't really have packs, they don't mind being alone and are self sufficient. In short, she is an actual bad woman who looks so pretty and innocent that people won't dare to think wrong about her.

  50. I need to hear/learn more about the female NARC. I am currently separated from my wife who I believe is one. We are in a bad place that I feel is not returning back too!

  51. Tell her she's better than you… give her your lover and some money…🎓😂 Just kidding. She'll want your whole life. So give her that man of yours and run the other way…

  52. Well done! Thanks for putting this out there. I've had to turn down invitations to committee work with a female narcissist who dominates and derails discussions to keep herself feeling relevant, who has publicly insulted me on a number of occasions for proposing innovative ideas that she didn't generate or did not understand. She (and perhaps all narcissists) seems to be acting out of an unmet childhood need to feel important and valued. I have not retaliated, and have not lowered myself to that same level. I have learned to bow out gracefully with male and female narcissists, to save my integrity and sanity and happily move on to other creative endeavors. The narcissist will try to make us believe that the territory they dominate is our only arena for self-satisfaction, and self-worth, as they believe it is for them. Not so. The world is the sane person's oyster. There are plenty of ways to be successful without accepting narcissistic abuse.

  53. you are now 180k subscribers ……i really applause but also feel a little sad that there are som many people trying to sove this riddle//

  54. the traits of a narcisist male almost everyone has them …many times i thought and ask my self if iam a narcisist ?i am married to a woman that i really love but her behavioral patterns and ways are somehow identical with cover or non covert narc …in this time iam married i tried to educate my self with seminars , videos , long consulting disqussions with psychotherapists just to armor my self but also learn to talk to my wife ..
    now i know that it wasnt my fault cause even if you are polite , lovingand kind for a narc isnt enough and even more is a good excuse to snap at me with verbal and physical abuse …accusing me that my kindness is a sadistic menevolent type of lie …(i say to her please calm down ,,everything its ok ..relaxe ..)but at the end silent treatment is the most possible out come …

    many times i asked my self if iam the lunatic , the narcisist , the abuser or everything else that she is saying to me and around ..but as i researched i find out that even to ask this deeply and sincere in your self ,it takes the thought away because no narcisist would ask that ,, and not narc would educate their self to lowwer their reactions ore their vambirism …

  55. nonsense.
    If the narcissist really believes they are high value, then how could they also have low self esteem?
    You contradict yourself.

  56. Why does anyone listen to a narcissist,or believe anything they say. They lie about everything and twist truth into lies. The narcissists always bad mouth people. Thats why I usually never believe anything they say.

  57. That’s my mother, unfortunately but luckily for me I caught on to it and left her alone but I feel bad for my brother because she damaged him really bad smh, I learned that you could never make her happy and nothing is ever good enough for her, if you hugged her she would secretly be rolling her eyes about you behind your back and after smile in your face and say you look nice today but I look even better. I remember I told her “I think something is wrong with you mom”, and she laughed and said “I’ve been to many doctors and nobody has ever said anything is wrong with me” and I repeated myself said “The things you do and say are not normal and I think you need to see a doctor”.

    But she just laughed it off, I honestly can tell she knows something is off but she just can’t help it smh

  58. i have seen many, , they are not aggressive at all, strong libido, very intense in bed, high IQ, well educated and very lonely. nothing wrong with that, zero.

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